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Say you are in stuck in a hole.
You need a rope to climb out or you don't how how to climb and need to learn that. I am your girl. I'll do what I can to help to help, and try seek others too if possible.
It is possible there IS no way out of the hole. I'll stay close to you, as much as I can, and try to be there even if you are scared and in pain.
If you want me to go down to your hole with you because you are stuck there, or think that I should take your place because it is my turn or something, that's not going to happen. I don't care how you ended up in the hole, I don't care how unfair it was. I didn't push you to your hole. I am not the one keeping you down there even if you think me responsible by simple virtue of not being in one.
Besides, what makes you think you know where I am? You don't know which holes I have been in, which holes I am still stuck in. Just because my voice is coming from above you or that I am trying help doesn't mean I am closer to surface than you are.
Maybe I have just sat in a much, much deeper hole than you can imagine in past so this doesn't feel so bad.
Maybe I have never seen anyone outside the hole when I was younger so I thought everyone was in holes. So I learned to how to live in them instead. I mean learning to climb around a little and a make-shift light and it is almost like my own little surface down here some days.
I am not saying you will be able to do those things, each hole is different, regardless of depth. I won't judge you if you don't judge me.
...and the rope offer still stands by the way.
Who knows, together we might even pull each other up.
You need a rope to climb out or you don't how how to climb and need to learn that. I am your girl. I'll do what I can to help to help, and try seek others too if possible.
It is possible there IS no way out of the hole. I'll stay close to you, as much as I can, and try to be there even if you are scared and in pain.
If you want me to go down to your hole with you because you are stuck there, or think that I should take your place because it is my turn or something, that's not going to happen. I don't care how you ended up in the hole, I don't care how unfair it was. I didn't push you to your hole. I am not the one keeping you down there even if you think me responsible by simple virtue of not being in one.
Besides, what makes you think you know where I am? You don't know which holes I have been in, which holes I am still stuck in. Just because my voice is coming from above you or that I am trying help doesn't mean I am closer to surface than you are.
Maybe I have just sat in a much, much deeper hole than you can imagine in past so this doesn't feel so bad.
Maybe I have never seen anyone outside the hole when I was younger so I thought everyone was in holes. So I learned to how to live in them instead. I mean learning to climb around a little and a make-shift light and it is almost like my own little surface down here some days.
I am not saying you will be able to do those things, each hole is different, regardless of depth. I won't judge you if you don't judge me.
...and the rope offer still stands by the way.
Who knows, together we might even pull each other up.
